Look again at Titus 2:11-12, which says that grace teaches us to say, “No” to any worldly passions:
For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age.
Again, stop projecting, for we ourselves are in need of reformation. We are not making the food, spouse, or boss change—we are making ourselves change. You can do it, and you can start right now. You can completely rebuild your behavior with the help of God. You can choose today to walk out of the prison of your old life and completely be born again by turning to God!
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