Trials in life are Heaven-screened—all personalized tests for you to be refined in love, peace, kindness, charity, faithfulness and goodness. These are all fruits of the Spirit and they are the characteristics of Christ and God. God is holy and holy means to come out or away from evil and sin and then stay separated from evil. God is Holy because He is pure and then has separated Heaven from hades and the unclean. God has exorcized the demons and bitter attitudes and reserved all the good Angels with sweet attitudes. It is neither male nor female characteristics. God and Godly men will be gentle, patient, kind, loving, full of joy. I have grown to thank God for all the trouble He has gone to—to select the perfect altar table and refiner’s fire for me personally. Each of us can be carved out to focus only on God, to depend only on God, to love only God—but ultimately, we are His offspring…we are His children, to be like The Father, to be like God.